yeah I've got a couple of them with plugs I snatched from other cars and will go that route if I cant stick with the oem pre-wired relay.

on another note. I have this diagram I found as well:
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A6 (pink/black) is switched ecu power. is B1 (orange) constant power or memory power? do these computers retain constant power?

and do I need to worry about whatever the hot fuel module is? I want to say I dont as I think that just power the oem dash gauge??

I see how the starter has a purple/white coming from it going to the ecu. purple/white at the ecu is B5. do I tie into this?

I also see the purple from the ignition switch. I assume that is the "ignition switch on" position so I would tie from the ignition switch to all of the following: pink at coil, A6, B1 right?